“Know if the girl is girlfriend material or just a party hook up”

The most common places to go on the pull are – a pub crawl or a night of clubbing. However, it’s hard to meet girls who are looking for something more than one night of fun. If you’re looking for someone a bit more serious or for girlfriend material, it’s still possible to find her, but you have to look for the right signs to know that she’s not just a wild party girl. Most women who go out aren’t like that all the time – they’re just having a bit of fun on a Friday night – but there are perks and pitfalls while trying to find a decent girl in a giant, teeming pool of revelry. Here are a few steps that will help guide you along in your quest to find a fun and down-to-earth date.

Party Girl or Party Night?

You might be asking yourself how you can tell the difference between a party girl, and a girl just out for the night. To start, observe her drinking habits. If she’s a bit pissed from a few pints, that’s probably a good indication that she doesn’t drink all the time. If she’s so drunk she can’t even stand upright, think again. And especially take note if it’s because she’s been doing shots all night. These are all bad signs. You want a girl who knows how to have a good time and enjoy herself, but not one that gets so embarrassingly pissed that her mates have to haul her out the door and call a taxi. Rest assured: you will be her mate one day if you go for a woman that meets this description.

Virtues and Drawbacks to Different Venues

“It is hard to talk to girls in clubs”

Pubs or clubs, you ask? Well, the upside to pubs, if you’re looking for more than just a shag, is that you can actually talk to people. It’s more laid back, and you can also be there for reasons other than drinking – whether to eat or watch a match. Usually you’ll see your regular mates there as well, and it can be a much more relaxed atmosphere to chat a woman up. On the other hand, she’s probably going to be wearing trainers, so you don’t get the sneak peak. We’d like to think we’re not totally shallow, but it doesn’t hurt to feel a bit of a physical spark the first time you meet a girl. That’s the benefit of a club: everyone is looking very smart, including you. You might feel a bit more confident in a club, and you’re going to get an eyeful of women at their best appearance-wise. A pub or a club is really up to each individual bloke, so just keep in mind the differences in atmosphere, when choosing where to go.

How to Approach Her

This part is a little easier. Once you’ve found a girl you fancy, in the atmosphere that most suits you, ask to buy her a drink and give a friendly smile.