Finding a woman that’s relationship material is a dilemma we’ve all faced. Sometimes after mucking about, you get tired of the same routine, and you’d like to find a girl to get serious with. While “serious” may not mean marriage, it’d be nice to find someone to spend time, with the bonus of a shag. So how do you go about meeting girls? There are a few ways, but we suggest you take matters into your own hands, have a laugh while you’re at it, and actively go out on the pull. But how do you tell who’s quality and worth your time, versus a cow? Here are a few tricks to test the waters when you first meet her to see if she’s dodgy.
They say to never judge a book by its cover, but sometimes, there’s just no other way. If you approach a woman, keep in mind how you do so and why. If it’s solely because she’s fit, you might get off with her, but find a better reason than that. If she’s attractive and looks like she’s having fun, that’s a better reason to maintain interest than trying to go for a girl that might be more beautiful. Aloof birds are stuck up and probably won’t give you the time of day. The best tactic is to go for a girl who’s approachable.
Who Is She With?
Another good indicator of her personality is who she’s come out with. Is she with a great gaggle of women, or is she with only a few friends? More importantly: is she with someone? Watch out for the angry boyfriend. He’s not going to appreciate the fact that you’re trying to chat up his bird, and it may start a serious row. Leave the drama at home, and choose your potential love interest with care. Another warning sign is if she’s with a huge amount of friends and she’s the center of attention. This might just be because she’s that wonderful… but it could also mean that she’s a diva. Pay attention to whether any of her friends actually get a word in, or if it seems she’s dominating the entire conversation.
This may seem obvious, but how a girl behaves in social settings is a huge clue into how she is in private as well. For example, if a woman is at the pub and she’s yelling and doing shot after shot, if that’s your type, go for it. But if not, and you’re looking for someone a bit more low key, seek out the girl who’s with her raucous mate, but maybe is a bit wary of drawing attention to herself. This is also a brilliant opportunity to have a nice, quiet chat with a girl who looks more approachable. Whatever you do, gauging a girl’s personality by how she behaves in public is one of the best ways to figure out what she’ll be like when it’s just the two of you.